लहरों से डर कर नौका पार नहीं होती, कोशिश करने वालों की हार नहीं होती।
नन्हीं चींटी जब दाना लेकर चलती है, चढ़ती दीवारों पर, सौ बार फिसलती है। मन का विश्वास रगों में साहस भरता है, चढ़कर गिरना, गिरकर चढ़ना नहीं अखरता है। आख़िर उसकी मेहनत बेकार नहीं होती, कोशिश करने वालों की हार नहीं होती।
डुबकियां सिंधु में गोताखोर लगाता है, जा जा कर खाली हाथ लौटकर आता है। मिलते नहीं सहज ही मोती गहरे पानी में, बढ़ता दुगना उत्साह इसी हैरानी में। मुट्ठी उसकी खाली हर बार नहीं होती, कोशिश करने वालों की हार नहीं होती।
असफलता एक चुनौती है, इसे स्वीकार करो, क्या कमी रह गई, देखो और सुधार करो। जब तक न सफल हो, नींद-चैन को त्यागो तुम, संघर्षों का मैदान छोड़ कर मत भागो तुम। कुछ किये बिना ही जय जय कार नहीं होती, कोशिश करने वालों की हार नहीं होती।
Success refers to the accomplishment of a particular goal whereas failure refers to the inability to accomplish a particular goal. Success is not last, failure is not final: the only thing that tallies and is ever is your courage to continue-Winston Churchill.
When you do something, you have a target of achieving, completing, or changing a thing. The Real-Life form of those outlooks is called Success. Success is good but failure is better. You must not let successes get to your crown but also must not let failure ingest your heart. At least with the failure option, you are that much nearer to realizing your goal. Failure also gives you true confidence relatively than untrue confidence. Successes that are easy often leave lots of scope for failure—because the success has made you feel that not anything could go wrong.
Because when we fail, we feel like anything but a success.
And don’t give me the Thomas Edison thousand tries to make a light bulb story. I know that he failed hundreds of times before he got it right and thanks to his tenacity and determination we have a great invention. But that was him and I’m not an inventor.
Self-improvement can be a real struggle for people who don’t cope well with failure. Why?
Because even self-improvement requires us to fail forward. Improving requires learning, failing, and change. So those who are afraid of failure hunker down in a self-described safety zone and stop growing. If they stay in one place treading water, they don’t have to worry about failure right?
Failure has some benefits.
Failure teaches lessons. It can be an effective teacher. …
It keeps us hungry and humble.
Failure helps us overcome fear.
It recommits us to our goals.
Failure inspires creative solutions.
Failure strengthens our support System.
Failure makes us more valuable mentors.
There are some of the traits of a successful failure are-
Optimism:-Find the benefit in every bad experience.
Responsibility:-Change your response to failure by accepting responsibility.
Resilience:-Say Good bye to everything.
Initiative:- Take action and face your fear.
You have to deal with failure in a positive way and can help you work harder to find better solutions so that you will improve next time. So go ahead and embrace your emotions. Acknowledge how you are feeling and let yourself feel bad for a bit. Tag your emotions and permit yourself to practice them.
There are various habits which teach how to overcome failure in a positive way which is as follows-
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First, just accept how you feel.
Remember you are not a failure just because you had a setback.
Be constructive and learn from this situation.
Remind yourself anyone who wants to do the things of value in life will fail.
Let it out into the light.
Find inspiration and support from your world.
There are many ways to handle failure at Work like build your self-confidence, Keep Calm, and face reality.
C.S Lewis:-“Failures are finger pillars on the highway to accomplishment.
“I can admit failure, everyone fails at somewhat But I can’t receive not trying.-Michael Jordan.
Words have the power to change the world. Different persons gave their statements after experiencing their life and those statements have become quotations in this world. People are living their life on the basis of those quotations and getting success in their lives. Moreover, we will discuss eight quotation of eight different personalities of the world.
Firstly, Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam quoted, “don’t take rest after your first victory because if you fail in second, more lips are waiting to say that your first victory was just your luck.” It means that you should never take rest after winning anything and not give up to do hard work. The reason is that if you lose in your second game, every person will say that your first victory was just your luck and it was not your hard work. Therefore, you need to prove yourself at every stage of life.
Walt Disney, “The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.” It is stated that too much planning is useless if you are not implementing the planning. Hence, actual results may different from assumed results. Every time try to be practical instead of thinking more.
It was stated by Zig Ziglar, “What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.” You should not focus on materialistic things, wealth and power. You need to think that you can change the world and you can become good personality who can serve to people with their unique skills.
Another one statement was quoted by Mother Teresa, “Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.” This statement means that do not leave your work for tomorrow and never think about your past because both are out of control of your hands. Lastly, start your work from now, do not wait for anyone.
Bill Gates said, “Don’t compare yourself with anyone in this world…if you do so, you are insulting yourself.” It clarifies that everyone has his/her skills and specialties. No one can become master in every field. For instance, cheetah is well known for his speed and elephant is known for strength. Meanwhile, you do not need to compare yourself with anyone because you have your own powers.
Reba McEntire is an American singer, songwriter, actress, and record producer states, “To succeed in life, you need three things: a wishbone, a backbone and a funny bone”. For moving forward in your life, you must have wishes, reasons to move continue and cause of smile in worst situations.
Audrey Hepburn was a British actress, model, dancer and humanitarian quotes, “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible.” It is motivational quote which means you can do everything in the world whatever you want to do. Things might difficult, but never impossible. You just need to start effort for doing.
Nelson Mandela was a South African anti-apartheid revolutionary, political leader, and philanthropist who served as President of South Africa from 1994 to 1999 quoted, “Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world”. It reveals that to change the world, you should provide education and awareness in the society. To convince anybody, you just need to show facts and figures to aware him/her.
